Relationships: My husband is blinded by his parents

7 months ago, my husband moved his entire family of 8 to live with us. We've been married for 6 years, and we totally forgot about our 6th year anniversary because he was and still is too busy with the family business and his side of the family. His father is too money hungry and his mother is too power hungry. Basically, she is competing for the title of perfect housewife against me although she does not believe in cleaning and cooking. The father does not mind the fact that his wife just sits in her room and watches movies all day since cleaning and cooking is money wasted on water... cleaning supplies ...electricities.... food...ect.! And NO I am not am not making this up!

My husband is the most favorite child since he would rather have his wife and 3 year old daughter killed in order to save his parents. For some reason, he sees and acknowledges the same problem that I see, but still blame everything that his parents don't do or do on me... his wife. One day, he will totally agree with me...the next day he will go to his parents to discuss the crap that I've been saying behind their back. If I don't share my opinions with him... who will I tell it too??? He always take their side no matter if it's right or wrong... never mind the fact that they don't like having guest over... or socializing with people outside of the house.....races as anything... preaching me to hate on my families' side because we marry interracially but love only their side of the family.... always talking bad about people even though they don know the person... saying that no one have a penny in their pocket except for them.... who has millions but not a penny of class and dignity.

The problem is the money. My husband bought "our house and business" with his parents money. Now the debt is forced upon me to take whatever crap that they throw my way... because I owe them big time. Please remember that all situations and events are only for my husband and his parents to make the decisions upon. The wife that I am are only acknowledge of the decision making process after they are made.

So I started not too care too much about my husband since he goes in to work with his father from 9am till 11pm. Having spent that much time together, he still manages to sneak in bedtime stories for his parents. Which left me his wife, only sleeping time to be together. And so my husband complains that I do not go help at the business. Not after 5 other siblings are here to help him..... but they need to play video games all night and sleep when the sun comes up which brings them to help with "their family business at 3pm." Now mind me the wife that I have to take care of our daughter.... cook lunch and dinner for the "whole entire family while they are sleeping" and go help my parents at "our grocery store." Did I mention the mother should receive an award for her superior housewife mother role? Oh she is also the eyes and ears of the house.....even if most of the time she makes up stories and troubles.

So supposedly my husband takes Mondays off to spend quality time with his wife and kids. But.....he wakes up early to chit chat with his father..then comes and count the weeks money.....then drop the funds off at the bank...then goes into work for a couple... oh.....3 hours.....then comes take his wife to go speed grocery and supply shopping....then goes back to work.....and don't come back home till an hour before closing....which is already 10pm. So this is how we spend our Monday quality times together. And so the father have the nerves to remind me that the house, busines, and cars does not belong to me at all... and that I am free to move out whenever I feel like it. And I was feeding 3 of the family members for 3 years...and the whole entire family of 8 for 7 months with the foods and supplies that I am to be freely taken from my side of the family grocery store... and also my husband & I gave a $30 grand BMW which was paid solely from my money and my husband's money from working our regular jobs before we had the businesses to one of his brother. AND MY HUSBAND AND HIS PARENTS STILL BLAME ME FOR ALL THE "TROUBLE" IN THE HOUSE!!! And he sees me as a terrible wife for HATING his troublesome parents!!!

WOW! What?!!!!!