Uggh! A mother called me to tell me my daughter (she's 12) was spreading rumors about her daughter... this mother thought that I told my daughter something personal about her daughter. WELL, I did say something to my daughter about this kid....I told the mom that and apologized. She was/is furious with me, I apologized profusely. Now, after to speaking to my kid, I find out that my daughter had nothing to do with the rumor.
I want to call that mom back and set the story straight, but I know she would be out of control and start screaming at me again.
I am one of those people who consistently try to do the right thing. To be yelled at freaks me out. The fact that I could be responsible REALLY freaks me out. I know I cannot resolve this with this mother, and I cannot get it off my mind.
I thought that by putting it into words here would help my anxiety. Thanks for making this place available.
Well if you did say something about the child, maybe the guilt/embarrassment you are feeling is a good thing. It's hard to say without knowing the full story but if you did say something horrible about this child to your daughter and now both of you are being punished for it, well at least you will probably not do it again.