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		<title>The monster within</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Dec 2007 13:21:58 -0500</pubDate>
		<author>kittEcatt</author>
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			<![CDATA[Just leave me and my family alone.]]>
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		<title>The monster within</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 16:07:20 -0500</pubDate>
		<author>mary99</author>
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			<![CDATA[Some men can't appreciate what they have and its a same.  After 10yrs my husband just up and walked out while I was making his dinner!  Always worked everything around him.  He could not even look me in the eyes.  I sympathys with all.  But I have not sympathy for a woman who takes a married man from his family. NO MATTER WHAT.]]>
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		<title>The monster within</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 15:16:40 -0400</pubDate>
		<author>kittEcatt</author>
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			<![CDATA[Thank you Mary!  After all that, she doesn't even want him.]]>
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		<title>The monster within</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2008 13:28:20 -0500</pubDate>
		<author>twinkle2000</author>
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			<![CDATA[KITTECAT, I HAVE BEEN GOING THREW THE SAME THING. THE OTHER WOMAN GOT PREGNANT AND DECIDES TO POP UP AFTER THE KID WAS 2 YEARS OLD.  AND LIKE AN IDIOT I HELPED HER. 2 MONTHS LATER MY HUSBAND LEFT AND MOVED IN WITH HER FOR 10 MONTHS AND REALIZED THE GRASS WASNT GREENER ON THE OTHERSIDE.HE CAME HOME IN APRIL/08 AND IN OCTOBER WELL I CAUGHT HIM CHATTIN WITH HER ABOUT 2 MONTHS AGO AND HACKED INTO HIS EMAIL AND FOUND AN EMAIL. HE SAID IT WAS NOTHING BUT I GOT MAD AND KICKED HIM OUT. I WANTED HIM TO COME BACK HOME BUT HE WOULDNT.GUESS WHO HE IS WITH AGAIN LMAO HER. THE SAD THING IS THAT MARRIED MEN ALWAYS GO BACK TO THERE WIVES AND THE OTHER WOMAN WILL ALWAYS BE SECOND PLACE SO WILL THE KIDS THEY BEAR WITH THEM AS WELL. ITS SAD BUT TRUE. WHEN I READ THIS IT WAS LIKE ME AND THE OTHER WOMAN BICKERING I WAS LIKE WOW! I HAVE 2 CHILDREN WITH MY HUSBAND AND HE HAS NO BOND WITH THE OTHER KID SHE EVEN SAID THAT LOL SO WHY WOULD SHE WANT A MAN LIKE HIM??? BECAUSE SHE ENJOYS RUINING PEOPLES LIVES THATS WHY. KITTECAT MY STORY HAS MUCH MORE TO IT BUT I WILL GIVE U MY EMAIL AND LET U KNOW THE REST OF THE STORY OK. THE OTHER WOMAN IS OBVIOUSLY INSECURE BECAUSE SHE KNOWS HE WILL LEAVE HER AND GO BACK TO HIS WIFE AND KIDS. SECOND PLACE MUST BE HARD TO SETTLE FOR. ARE YOU AND HIM STILL MARRIED?IM ALSO MOVING FROM HERE TO GET AWAY FROM HIM AND ESPECIALLY HER ITS MORE OF A TEST BUT WE WERE ALL SUPPOSE TO MOVE FOR MY CAREER CHANGE SO WE WILL SEE WHO LEAVES WITH WHO LOL AND BY THEN MAYBE I WANT CARE ABOUT HIM ANYMORE IM HOPING]]>
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		<title>The monster within</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 20:40:45 -0500</pubDate>
		<author>lava</author>
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			<![CDATA[Repeat this to yourselves over and over again until you believe it.  &quot;I love you, but I love me more.&quot;  Don't get caught up in thinking that other people can't understand where you're coming from or what your situation is because most women have been there. It's a matter of how much respect women have for themselves.  The only one who will respect and love you to the very fullest is you!!  Think about what you're fighting for and what your prize would really be in the end if you do win him back.  All you really showed her is that you wasted even more of your time on a headcase that wasn't worth it.  Not to mention that you are only helping her more by getting this monster away from her when she's the one who deserves such a scum bag.  You're wasting your time on an idiot when the right guy could be standing right in front of you, but you're too focused on the enemy to notice.  Ladies, it's not you.  It's him.  Don't mistake challenges and rejection for love.  It's not worth your time and look at how much you have already wasted on this animal.  You have to stop blaming yourself.  If it wasn't you, it would have been someone else. He is who he is (a piece of poop) and there's nothing that you or anyone can do to stop him from being him. It would be no different than him being a convict for killing or raping someone after you started seeing him.  Would you think you were the cause of such a thing?  If not, then why would you think you had anything to do with him being a player?  Do you ever talk with friends about other people and say OMG, I could never be with someone like that?  These guys you are fighting for are the ones that we chat like this about.  What are your limits?  Where does it end?  These guys are not your problem to solve.  Concentrate on you, your family and/or friends and think of having a future with them instead.  It's a choice whether or not we have a man in our lives.  Don't mistake them for something we need as women. When you clean your house, don't forget to take the trash out, they stink.  God Bless and good luck.]]>
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