I'm not sure if anyone can help me with this but it's really freakin' me out. I have been single now for close to a year and recently I have been having these dreams about my ex-girlfriend of 3 years. Just regular dreams nothing out of the ordinary. I know that our year apart is 3 months away and maybe that has something to do with it. But it all started about a month ago and now I have at least two dreams a week with either her or her voice in them. We didn't have much closer nor do we talk anymore after spending almost everyday together. I miss her family and her at times. I have purchased dream books to try an analayze them. But, it doesn't help. Has anyone been in this situation before that can give me some insight. I would greatly appreciate any feedback.
Dreams are amazing! and can give us the answer to a lot of questions and I think we dream what we truly feel. I have dreams that bring up a lot of the past like fights, arguments I had with relatives and I didn't finish. For me it makes me quite angry inside, like I should do something about it and in your case Donnie716, the sense of being unloved can bringing up unfinished business. My only advice to you is try to do somethings different than what you usually used to, keep yourself busy and that may help you get your ex-girlfriend out of you mind.
I really don't know anything about dreams, I mean I've never read a book about analyzing them or researched it at all for that matter :) But I've had dreams before of an ex or an old friend I'm not friends w/anymore... I wonder if it's just our way of reminescing on what once was, what could have been?? I mean consciously we wonder sometimes what would have happened if we stayed w/our exes so why not subconciously while we're sleeping think of them? Does that make sense? I know I don't want to be w/my ex but I have dreamt of them like maybe we're still together or relive memories of the past in my dreams and sort of rewrite my memories (I am dreaming after all:)