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MEN THAT DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY ARE LEAVING BEHIND

mary99 — Thu, 21 Feb 2008 16:16:29 -0500

You clean, cook, make them look good at the work place and then just leave without a word and can not even look you in the eye and say why??? And you loose 10 years of your life, because you catered to them and them only. Your left with a void amd hurt. Broken Heart and try to pick up the pieces. Confused on why you even married that person. Life is short ladies, don't get screwed.
Especially with some foreign men. Walking out on some one and not telling them WHY???? Really hurts. WhAT WAS HE THINKING. They will miss what they had and for some there will be no return.
HEART BROKEN AND CONFUSED.

A POEM OF LOVE AND DEVOTION

mary99 — Tue, 12 Feb 2008 15:24:30 -0500

My One and Only Love
As I lay here smelling his sent on his pillow,
thinking of the good times and a little bad,
but always good.
I will always LOVE HIM no matter what.
He has my Heart,
He has my Soul,
He has taken my Love and closed me off.
Always in my Heart,
I will Love and Cherish Him;
EVEN thou he's GONE, my heart and soul
he has.
For I know in my Heart, my LOVE is strong and
there will never be another.
He is Gone.
LOVE FOREVER AND EVER

Happy Valentine's Day to all the people truely in LOVE

mary99 — Mon, 11 Feb 2008 20:24:13 -0500

Have a great day - Love is special

truth why is it so hard

mary99 — Fri, 08 Feb 2008 22:54:57 -0500

telling the truth in a relationship should be easy if you LOVE that person;but sometimes LOVE really hurts.

Friendship and love defined in one photo

Dino — Fri, 03 Aug 2007 10:37:56 -0400

geeeezzz......can we (human) be like that too?? helping someone who love someone we love too?!

love is say i LOVE YOU

mary99 — Wed, 06 Feb 2008 19:53:18 -0500

why is it a wife can say i love you before bed,in morning and before getting off the phone with her husband but he only says it some time.

love is always saying i love you

mary99 — Wed, 06 Feb 2008 19:50:38 -0500

before bed, in the morning, and always. so men have to be reminded. and sometimes they just don't say it back. why do men have such a hard time saying thinks? only when they are angrey will they vent.

Top Internet Dating Profile Mistakes

Natalie — Sat, 12 Jan 2008 23:09:09 -0500

These days Internet dating is huge. If you’re serious about finding The One and are NOT using internet dating, you’re missing out on one of the most powerful ways to meet potential mates. But as with everything, there is a right and a wrong way to create an outstanding profile. With a great profile, you open up a world of possibilities and draw interesting, attractive prospects. With the wrong one, you'll send people running for the hills even if you really are Ms. or Mr. Wonderful. Or worse yet, you'll be attracting the wrong type of responses.

Mistake Number One: Internet Dating is For Losers

Although Internet dating is for smart people ready for action towards a goal, you’d be surprised how many people start their profile off with something like, “I can’t believe it’s come to this.” This gives readers the wrong vibe about what kind of person you are. You’re implying that there must be something wrong with you if you’re using Internet dating. Worse, it also suggests that there’s something wrong with the person reading your profile if they’ve had to “stoop” to finding love online. You’re trying to draw people in, not insult them! Therefore, mom’s old adage applies “If you don’t have something good to say, don’t say anything at all.”

Mistake Number Two: Yeah, But Who Are YOU?

Although brevity is supposed to be the soul of wit, when it comes to your profile, being too succinct is a problem. After all, you’re supposed to create some interest, spark some intrigue. Without giving your reader something to react to, something to be drawn to, they will just click on to the next. While, it’s true that people have short attention spans on line-you do want to leave an impression that you’re someone with something interesting to say.

I don't know what to do

tiffanny — Mon, 05 Nov 2007 00:54:23 -0500

I'm in a 4 yr relationship with a wonderful, smart,and funny man. He treats me with love and respect and he buys me whatever I want when he can afford it. But lately I just find myself less and less attracted to him. From the first time I met him,I didn't think he was all that attractive but he had such a fun personality. We always had fun together and he always made me laugh. He became my best friend. I don't believe that I will ever meet a man that treat me as good as he does. I don't know what to do because I don't want to brake his heart but at the same time I can't be intimate with him any more. I'm really afraid of being alone and putting myself back out there. And I don't want to lose my best

Bitter Towards Hubby . . .

ErinT1980 — Tue, 23 Oct 2007 20:08:52 -0400

I really need some advice on this. Here is my story . . .

My husband and I brought home our newborn daughter a little less than 3 weeks ago. Everything started out perfect, this was my husbands first child (my second) and he was SUCH a doting daddy. All he wanted to do was hold her and tell everyone who would listen how beautiful she was. Well, about a week after we got home, it seemed like the "new" started to wear off. He still dotes on her, but hardly ever picks her up, feeds her, changes her, and has never even attempted to bathe her. He works in a restaurant, so the only nights he helps me get up with her are the nights he doesn't have to work the next day. The days he does have to work, the earliest he has to leave the house is 10 am! He will go to bed at 11 or 12 and sleep 9 or 10 hours straight while I am up all night and MAYBE get 2 or 3 hours. If I ask him to help me get my oldest ready for school the next morning, so I can finally sleep, he yells at me and tells me that since he has to work that day, he should be getting all the sleep. Mind you, this is after he has already slept 7 or 8 hours. I have to beg him to get up because I haven't even been to bed yet. He's not like that if he doesn't have to work the next day, but seriously, if you don't have to work until 10 or 11 the next day, you can get up and help me out. He also doesn't help AT ALL around the house. I realize that I am home all day, but I just popped a baby out less than 3 weeks ago, and still need a little bit of rest. I am doing all the laundry, cooking, cleaning, shopping and taking care of a newborn. He comes home from work and gets straight on the computer to check his fantasy football teams (he has 3) instead of coming and picking up his daughter. When he is home, I still feed her, change her and bathe her while he watches TV or plays on the computer. He leaves dishes and garbage all over, and I am constantly picking up after him.

I love my husband, and I don't mean to sit here and make him out to be some total a-hole, because he's not, but I am starting to feel completely unappreciated. I'm totally depressed, and feel like all I am here for is to tend to everyone else's needs. There is no touching, holding, or anything like that unless it is of a sexual nature. I want to be held and asked how I feel. I want him to tell me to sit down and relax and let him take care of our daughter. We used to be best friends and have a relationship that most people were jealous of. Now I find myself resenting the hell out of him.